Reflections
“Blessed
are those who fear
the
Lord and walk in His ways.”
Our
psalmist tells us that a man
who has a right relationship with
the Lord will also obtain a right
relationship with his wife and his
family. If we have a right
who has a right relationship with
the Lord will also obtain a right
relationship with his wife and his
family. If we have a right
relationship
with the Lord, we will
know how to treat our wives and
our children, and in turn, we will
discover how blessed we are in
our home and by the presence of
know how to treat our wives and
our children, and in turn, we will
discover how blessed we are in
our home and by the presence of
our
family. “Just
so will the man
be blessed who fears the Lord.”
be blessed who fears the Lord.”
And
if a man walks with the Lord,
this will be reflected in the way he
loves his wife. Because if a man
cherishes his wife, as ‘flesh of his
flesh’ and ‘bone of his bones,’
he nourishes his relationship with
her, as Christ nourishes the Church.
this will be reflected in the way he
loves his wife. Because if a man
cherishes his wife, as ‘flesh of his
flesh’ and ‘bone of his bones,’
he nourishes his relationship with
her, as Christ nourishes the Church.
And
the man’s reward is that his wife
will be like a ‘fruitful vine’ within his
house. This is how a man is blessed
who fears the Lord.
will be like a ‘fruitful vine’ within his
house. This is how a man is blessed
who fears the Lord.
Having
been so favored by God, we
understand why, 'A man shall leave his
father and mother and cleave to his wife.'
God made them one flesh, and, 'What God
has joined, no human being may separate.'
understand why, 'A man shall leave his
father and mother and cleave to his wife.'
God made them one flesh, and, 'What God
has joined, no human being may separate.'
If
we fear the Lord and walk in His ways,
we will receive the blessings of our labor,
prosper in a material way, and grow old
gracefully in the company of our family.
we will receive the blessings of our labor,
prosper in a material way, and grow old
gracefully in the company of our family.
Amen
Discussion Questions for Reflection
1. The Psalm tells us how to gain God's favor so that our family life will
be blessed. What does it mean to you to fear the Lord and walk in His ways?
2. We learn from our psalmist how to behave toward our wife and our children.
A right relationship with our family is obtained by having a right relationship
with our Lord. Explain how you are putting this teaching into practice.